Thank Kalni! I asked for advice because I tend to go overboard with my X when he initiates anything with me, because I want resolution, closure, connection with him so, so badly. So, your advice is perfect, that's what I'll do.
The door to him as a potential mate is mostly closed--he would have to do so much to win me back, and right now I don't see it in him. But, he was such a big part of my life...I would just like to be at peace with him.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
