Maybe everything DQ, OT, and I have been saying is just a projection of our own experiences. In fact, I'll pitch a "probably" in there.
It doesn't invalidate one bit of it, though. Here you have people sharing f'ing hard-won wisdom/points of view. Some of it may fit. Everyone is different, but patterns sure repeat. If you don't believe that, why use phrases like, "WAW/MLC script?"
People are trying to give you a window into the throught process that they went through in similar situations. As diagnosis, it may lack precision or even appositeness. But you're crazy if you dismiss it as useless.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert