Good -- so you'll be damned if you'll help her, huh. Thus the withholding and resistance.
Oldtimer, that is SO unfair. "Help," yes -- I'm willing to help. I'm just not willing to DO IT ALL.
I told her last week that I would love "50/50" but that I would settle for even "90/10," but that I could no longer do "98/2."
I think we've pretty much beat this horse to death, and we're just going to have to agree to disagree. Until my wife can get some good individual counseling, and we can get some good MARRIAGE counseling, we're all just speculating here based on our own experiences and our own beliefs. I feel myself getting argumentative, and coming across like I'm not appreciating your help, which is the LAST thing I want to convey.
I think we best let this sleeping dog lie for now.
