Thinking of you. I am not ready for dating, and I hear what you are saying about not wanting your H to think a boyfriend was a reason for you giving up, when the time comes...
However there was something really interesting said by a Rabbi here in the States who wrote a book about great (married) sex and intimacy.
He said that a husband is often looking for variety in women (and I know not all men are the same, just bear with me!),which is why some have trouble in monogamous relationships. He said that often it helps if the husband can see the wife through the eyes of other men...in his counseling, he will take husbands and wives out to a restaurant/club. He will have the husband sit somewhere else in the room, and the wife sit up at the bar, alone. He said that for some reason, when the Hs see other men approaching/flirting/admiring their wives, they begin to see her as desirable in a way they hadn't in a while...
I don't know how to re-create this kind of thing, but it made me think anyway.
I think your jewelry sounds lovely, I would love to see pics. If I order something can you ship to the US???
