"To me, there should be some greater effort (hell, I'll take SOME effort!) expended -- sexually -- to try to re-build trust with me, and re-build love.
In two years, I've only seen three instances -- one, when our divorce was pending, two when our court date was pending, and three when we were about to tell our kids. Those, to me, were all about HER, and her own needs and guilt, and not at all to do with helping ME get past what she did to me.
There. I said it."
Good -- so you'll be damned if you'll help her, huh. Thus the withholding and resistance.
