Thanks sandi. I am so sad about all this. My W is such a dreamer. It's something I love about her, but it so often leads her to disaster. It hurts me greatly that she'd rather deal with this insane long distance affair rather than be with me and bring our family back together.
Her girlfriends are totally supportive of her and her affair. They say she's so much happier now and outgoing and open about everything, especially sexuality. Makes me very hurt and sad when I've been trying to get her to open up to me for years, but she wouldn't or couldn't. So many other people agree with you Sandi that she's heading down a road of pain and misery. I can understand why she can't see it, but don't her friends see it?
Like I said, I'm trying to completely detach and move on. Whatever happens with her is out of my control and I can't ride her insane roller coaster. I've got to protect myself and my kids.
