Yes Pup, can't afford that. And this pattern is getting old. This weekend when we got home she was still totally engaged and still pretty engaged yesterday, but today she's back to her distant self.

Last night I was sitting on the deck when she got home and she came out and sat down with me and it was like she had something to say, but wouldn't. We went out to dinner and while she was kind of talkative, it was like she was holding back. Once we got home she seemed to start her distancing.

I guess if I look at it on a whole, things have improved, but it's just so freakin slow it gets tiring to the soul.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.