My immediate goal is to get my wife to agree to go to lunch together and I will not talk about the Divorce or anything like that. Depending on how that goes, I may try to do that 2-3 times before I ask about going out for dinner with her. I'm taking the approach of dating/courting her all over again.
It may be too early for this, if you move too fast she going to push away...As PMA said you asked her let it go, if I had to guess she is probably leaning against lunch but doesn't want to say no. One thing you don't want is for her to go just because you keep asking.
What goals do you have immediately for you? Those are the goals you need to focus on.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
