I think you only blew her plans not any chances. Myself I would get my own L as you want someone on YOUR side when dealing with legal matters. Keep praying and working on yourself.
Me-44 WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY) S-16 S-14 M-10/17/1992 T23 Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09 Me stronger and happier everyday!