When I was on maternity leave w/ our second son, which was almost 5 yrs ago, H wrote me a letter (chickensh*t, I say) to tell me he had cheated on me -- 3 times since we had been married.

During the D sitch, there was an EA going on.

We have 3 boys. Part of my problem during the D sitch was I was scared sh*tless to be on my own and try to do it all.

I understand, unfortunately.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10