Don't know about that. It's a weird situation in that these are (were?) close friends of ours (our kids called us Aunt & Uncle). I truly believe she wants to get back together with her husband. I do think this emotional attachment came from both of their pain. He seems strongly convicted about no contact and according to him she agreed with him. She does have appointments finally this week with her pastor and counselor. When she and I talked on Saturday, she told me that she believes God can put back together any marriage. She said she was praying for us and I said I'll continue to pray for her.
My H said this is not someone he'd ever want to be with. He's seems to have had a "what was I thinking?" realization. I know I need to be careful and not naive. He's going to have to gain my trust back. Time will tell...
I'm not sure how to handle my friendship with her. Do I call her and see how things went this week? Your suggestions please.
