Thanks for the response. My issue is that it has been with 4 different women. All of them from his work where he is a manager. It stresses me out everyday he goes to work. I have constant headaches and just lost my zeal for life. I have it when he leaves for his girlfriends, its like I have a new lease on life but it is just so depressing staying here in the M but with 6 kids it is hard.

Thanks again

Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12