Leap of Faith

[Kalni]

I have issues like that with my son too. He asks some funny questions his dad should be the one answering. So, I just tell him, "next time you see dad, ask him!!!" LOL... That usually works.
K

How are you holding up in general sis?

[BobbiJo]

I am bracing myself. Tomorrow is the last day of school.....then it's time to move on.

[mishka422]

STRENGTH BBJ!!!!!!

You have shown grace and courage through this. As long as you go with your head and heart you will not go wrong.

You know you're justified (biblically), you know that your kids will ultimately be fine (because you are a loving supportive mother who thinks of them first and foremost), and you know that you will go on to a new chapter of your life with no regrets for what you think you could have done. No shoulda, woulda, coulda for you!

Love ya sis!

[Virtually_Handsome]

(((((BobbiJo)))))

[ernest88]

BBJ...just some info....there will be plenty of time even after you go do what you do...it's pretty much 6 months minumum in tennessee anyway..especailly when kids are involved.

[Kalni]

(((Bbj))),
you are alone already. Just like I am. We are both afraid of the "finality" of the D while in fact we are leaving as divorced already...
You will be fine,
K

And I will be following shortly...

[BobbiJo]

Thanks, guys. It says 60 days in Iowa but who knows. I have to meet with my atty again and make sure my ducks are in a row, then I will move forward...

[BobbiJo]

(((Bbj))),
you are alone already. Just like I am. We are both afraid of the "finality" of the D while in fact we are leaving as divorced already...
You will be fine,
K

And I will be following shortly...

K,

Sadly, that is what my Pastor told me. He said, "Your H left the marriage when he cheated on you, repeatedly. Then he left the marriage even more so by moving out and leaving you. He already ended the marriage, the rest is paperwork. And NOT your fault."

[ernest88]

Thanks, guys. It says 60 days in Iowa but who knows. I have to meet with my atty again and make sure my ducks are in a row, then I will move forward...

yep..they tell ya in Tennessee that you can be d'd in 90 days...well I've yet to see omne end in 90 days....it seems once attorney's get involved then the process slows dramatically....

[Kalni]

[quote=Kalni](((Bbj))),
you are alone already. Just like I am. We are both afraid of the "finality" of the D while in fact we are living as divorced already...
You will be fine,
K

And I will be following shortly...

Hmmmm A SMALL TYPO, just saw that... I hope you smiled reading that