Maybe I'm too encouraged by her willingness to talk to me at all. But I get it. It's hard for me to be blunt and direct with her - but that might be the problem. Like she says, I'm a nice guy and deserve better than what she is giving me.
Do I continue "snooping"? I'm assuming yes. Do I stop having any conversations with her until she says she has stopped the EA? Do i just go ahead and start planning my daughters college plans without including her?
Sorry, I'm sure it will come to me, I'm just struggling where the limits are.
