FIB I think that all we see is the romance behind the couple still holding hands. We did not see the years of struggle they over came to get to this point. There were probably years that they did not hold hands. No marriage is perfect from start to finish. The ones that make it are the ones that endure. We can all get there but it takes work. People today want instant gratification. We live in a disposable society we throw everything away including marriage and family. We think we are enlightened but we have not learned the most basic lessons.