(((Bbj))), you are alone already. Just like I am. We are both afraid of the "finality" of the D while in fact we are leaving as divorced already... You will be fine, K
And I will be following shortly...
K,
Sadly, that is what my Pastor told me. He said, "Your H left the marriage when he cheated on you, repeatedly. Then he left the marriage even more so by moving out and leaving you. He already ended the marriage, the rest is paperwork. And NOT your fault."
