iwant....This must be very difficult for you, but if I were you, I would pretend like these things don't exist. You said you sometimes try to talk to her about them and she is telling you things about her future partners. This is really not about you, its about herself. She may or may not ever head down that road, but right now, you should try very hard to just pretend it doesn't exist. Focus on your db-ing and yourself. She is going through her own form of MLC or whatever, and there is not much you can do about that. If you end up D'd, then she will do what she does. But until then, just focus on busting the D and then see what happens next.