Could use some insight...long...

[markhaving probs]

I told my wife the same thing and she went crazy, somebody told her it was a very brave thing to do. I personally cannot see it in that perspective particularly if your W does not want to engage in C as mine didn't.

No, at the end of the day your W is breaking up a family unit and is only thinking about herself. My W told me she wanted 'me time' as all she has ever done is look after the family. If she has asked me to sit down and talk about our R maybe I wouldn't be going through a D either. I'm afraid your W, like mine is checking out of the marriage.

I will not give up though and I'm sure you won't, its all about DR and patience and plenty of it from what I read.

All the best,

Mark