Yep -- absolutely. You're getting the hang of this.
Now, try to just respond with answers like that when SHE brings up stuff in her 'pit.' DON'T initiate the "what's wrong?"/"is something bothering you?" talks.
I hear you. The tough thing is I worry that not being forthcoming with empathy is one of the things that caused her to walk away. I guess I just need to focus now on my actions and creating a pull so she engages me?
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
