Another newcomer - already finding help

[JKL2009]

I feel like that is an OK thing - anger is better than apathy right? Just looking for hope here. I also think it is healthy she is communicating and telling me her feelings.

Yes it is good. What worked to get you to this point?

Reading things here, getting my head on straight, just that sort of thing. I have really looked hard at myself and I think I am smart enough to know the changes I need for me to be a better person, to handle this all better, and (as a possible outcome) hopefully save my M.