Believe me I am in no position to give advice other than what is in DR. Did something happen to/with her? I am curious as to why she is moving so fast with the filing and everything. Are you in a position to go to counseling? I have been going without my H and it is very helpful. My therapist is helping me uncover some pieces to this puzzle and as to why H is doing what he is doing. For now, be nice to her, and give her a good reasons to feel that chemistry too. July 7 gives you some time too...you don't have to make any descisions today. Hope this helps a little. I know how scary this is, and how much it hurts. It is unlike anything I have ever experienced. Good luck...keep posting. Nicole
