Confused - let me suggest that in your earlier post, where you said you don't know what you're doing other than moving on and adjusting to the routine, you were mistaken. You DO know what you're doing and, from my POV, you're doing exactly what you should be doing: moving forward. As General Patton told his officers, don't pay for the same real estate twice - so forward!
SmileysPerson - Thanks for the encouragement. I know moving on and adjusting to the routine is what I need to do right now. It's just that I'm not sure where I'm moving forward to. I don't see what I'm doing will wind up attracting my wife back. I really wish she would actually find a therapist to talk to about moving on from the hurt. I don't want to pressure her though as that's the wrong thing to do.
She did reply to my email to talk about her dad's problem. I almost called her back, but thought I would just wait. This cat and mouse game is really getting old
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
