My advice to you is communicate to her that you really dont want the D, but make sure you protect yourself legally. I wouldn't be a jerk, but if this is truly what she wants then so be it, but you won't lose time with your kids in the process.
She knows I don't want it. Last time we talked about it I told her (probably a mistake)that she was being selfish...She asked how...Well you're the only one in the family of four that wants this so I think it's selfish. For you not to want to even TRY to see if we can fix it is selfish.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
