Don't really know where to start with my story. H asked for divorce around new year's. I've been doing all the wrong things for 6 months, and our therapist has aided me sometimes in doing the wrong things (they were at her suggestion). H was having a possible PA, definite EA with old high school crush for at least 6 months prior, as well as taking S4 to her home.

Separated 5 months, seeing therapist to learn to co-parent. Just started seriously DBing a week ago, when I threw out all of the therapists suggestions that were anti DB.

I am so lost.


Me: 26
Ex: 27
Son: 5

Divorced: 3/2010
Each day is another opportunity to do it right.