i have alot of respect for you PDT, your posts here on DB.com offer alot of insight into looking at complex marital situations and advice for getting back on your feet after ones by knocked down low by a wayward spouse.
But I will say anyway, I think your wife is good at calling your bluff. Threathening divorce is serious. The End, right? Goodbye I'm done. So shes screws you; twice for good measure. And you back down/melt. Talking bedroom redecorations, renewing vows, serious emails back and forth, and considering this all might work out. But its just sex. Is a BJ worth backing down for?
A month ago you were concerned about OM#2 and her comments on dating other people. What happened with that?
