Sister, relax. He's doing and saying everything a man who wants to repair his marriage would do and say.

Maybe you would unburden yourself by telling him you've have his password and he's been under surveilience for quite some time. What? Did he think he was married to a stupid woman? NOO!!! And he wouldn't love her if he was. So there. He's gonna have to get up PRETTY EARLY in the morning if he ever thinks he's gonna outsmart you. You're harder to outsmart than "charley".

He's gonna have to step up to the plate and do the hardest job he's ever done and he needs to stop chickening out. He's gonna have to be an honorable man in your marriage, an officer AND a gentleman. His words and his actions define his character.