Travis, So sorry you are going through this. Right now you are going to have to back off. No amount of reasoning or pleading is going to reach her. Believe me I speak from experience. I'm sure there are lots of others on here that would tell you the same thing. She only sees what she wants to see right now, perhaps she is even rewriting history. You are going to have to open the "cage" door and let her see what's out there. Sometimes it will work and the WAS will see what they are missing and sometimes they won't. But as I see it right now you have no choice. However, do talk to a lawyer and see what your legal rights are as far as your possessions and the kids are.
The only thing you can do right now it to concentrate on your kids and yourself. Yes, I know easier said than done, but this situation will continue to consume you if you don't stay busy.
I found that AD's did calm me alot. They helped me to get back to somewhat normal. I was once able to concentrate on my kids, my job, and my life. No, they are not a fix all, but they did help me to calm down and help me get control of my life.
I have made lots of common mistakes and I'm no better off than I was two years ago. I'm hoping that others can learn from my mistakes.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
