Along those lines, why not give him the bills? I'm not sure I understand why you haven't. I mean, since he moved out and all and since you are concerned that you two are going so deep into debt that you cannot breathe, it seems to me that it would be appropriate that he take the bills and handle paying them. Takes the stress off of you and puts it back where it belongs, no?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
