I told my lawyer I didn't want her in there and what made me mad was that he didn't say anything!! My daughter is a mess and she keeps saying that she misses him but there is nothing I can do!!
I told her that he just needs space and time to get better and that he will call her when he does feel better.
I'm just so tired of the step-mother running the show and this is the same woman that said I was the best thing that ever happened to my H!!!!
What really gets me is that she is a nurse and does not believe in depression!!! He gets angry and says hurtful things and I've read 3 books so far on it and that is what most men do when depressed!!! They will also lie about what really happened and actually believe what they are saying!!! So God only knows what he is saying to them and other people!!
I'm hearing that he has to hit rock bottom before he will realize he needs help and what he has done to his family!!! I just wish I wasn't hurting so much and yes I hear all the time to work on myself!!
Worry only about me and the children but I find myself constantly thinking of him and our marriage and what the hell went wrong???
I'm so damn depressed myself that I'm in counseling and on antidepressants!!!! I love this man with my whole heart and he has gone through this once before and called for help after 2 months but since they (step-mother & father) are in his life again and didn't see what he did they have NO clue.
I know he would have been back by now and better!! It's been a little over 6 months now and she claimed she would never get involved in any of her children's marriages but she did big time!!!
Her answer for our problems is just get divorced and be done with it!!!!
