It's automatic when you feel it

[CharlieBrown]

5:

So, how did you like the liquibeads and also how did you like the yours&mine? I have looked at both of those as well, but not pulled the trigger.

I thought your comments about Mrs. 5's wild side, then settling down upon motherhood were interested. In my W's case, she has great admiration for her mom & dad's marriage and intentionally or not, she models her behavior strongly after them. Unfortunately for us, her parents are very non-intimate with each other. While she looks at them as the model of marriage, I have heard the under the breath comments from her dad which tell me he is not happy with the obvious lack of a sex life. I saw the same thing with my parents growing up but I had the opposite reaction to it as I wanted to be in a marriage with real intimacy. Because that is so ingrained in W, not sure if she can ever see the world in a different way.

CB