Peace,
My C mentioned that same book. I'll get it and read it as well. Maybe approaching things that way would be a 180 that would help me break out of the cycle of accommodating him and acquiescing just to keep the peach. I don't thing there are any guarantees that any approach will restore a M. I get so angry with myself because I'm such a strong person in so many areas of my life, but when it comes to H, I allow him to manipulate me and just turn to a puddle. I'll never survive that way - gotta draw on my strength and detach - detach - detach.


Me 39
H 38
T22/M15
S11
S7
EA Confirmed 3/11/09
Sep Weekdays Only 4/09