Burt...thanks for the support. I wish I could help others on this board. There were definitely some keys to the turnaround. And they were directly related to discussions on this board and the DR book. We are working on the big issue of TRUST and how to rebuild it. It is starting to build but we will be working on that for a while with the MC.

The biggest things I learned were ...NEVER GIVE UP, Stop the relationship conversations ASAP, work on yourself for what you want, be happy or at least fake happy when you can't be, which goes hand and hand with being pleasant and calm and remember you are not alone in this...there is your family and most of all God.


M43 W38 D9 S6 M13 T15
Grenade 01/10/09 1st bomb 03/16/09
2nd bomb 07/22/09
1st thread Desperate for direction