IMO H doesn't need to know about your holiday. He lives his own life, you live yours. It's not as if you will be cut off from the world. Your family knows where you will be right? In case of emergency, he could always get in touch with someone in your family, right?
What would the reason be for letting him know your are going on holiday? Just so he knows you're living? Trust me, he already knows that.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!