Nope, she says she doesn't want to rehash all the old feelings. Last week when she told me that she was going through with the D and I asked her about MC she said no...She says she still remembers sitting on the couch asking me about the rehab and i didn't want to talk w/her about it...Told her I understood and I'm sorry and I wish I could change that but at the time I was so angry with her for "making" me go.
I'm 99.999% sure that the M is done. Of course the ball's in her court because she has to come up with some kind of agreement that she thinks is fair and I think that's going to be harder than she thinks...
The thing that confuses me with her is that when we're together in person you wouldn't think we have any issues. We laugh, joke around there's no tension whatsoever. That's the hardest part of this. Also the fact that she agrees that if we didn't S the M would have worked out but she isn't willing to work it our now...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."