WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[confusedinpa]

While I was out on Sunday nite, she called for me to say goodnite to the boys. She commented it was loud. I said I went out to grab dinner and didn't give any details beyond that.

I found a quiet spot and talked to my boys and said goodnite. My wife got back on the phone and chatted for a bit. She said that she may way work on her Ipod again and may need to call me later. I said she could. I reminded her that I was going to call my lawyer to see if we can enter a support agreement without going to court if she was ok with that. She said she was but wanted to know what the formula would give her from support (oh oh, that could be trouble for me as it doubles what we agreed to - to almost 2500)

I just said goodnite and grabbed another drink. I got home pretty late. She didn't call back that nite. The last couple of times I went out, it bugged her, so I'm sure she's urked by it as well. I actually missed work on Monday as when I woke up, I was in no shape to go to work.

I got an email from her in the early afternoon. Just stuff related to the B'day party this Sat. It's not something I need to answer so I didn't to reply to it

She did call to follow up on the email she sent me. (Un?)Fortunately I left my phone at home when I ran out so I missed her call. She left a voice message that said she would talk with me tonite

She called for me to say goodnite to the boys. After I talked with them she got on the phone. We chatted for a few minutes (tactical type stuff) and then I said goodnite.

She sent me an email about an hour later with pictures of the boys from the baseball game we went to the Friday before Mother's day. In her email, she asked me to let her know I got them. I sent her a text to thank her for the pictures.

I'm curious if she will actually call for lunch this week

I'm not going to get my hopes up but I do want her to

I know it may not make sense to go out to lunch with her to spend some one on one time. I'm not sure why she would want to if she hasn't changed her mind about keeping the divorce train moving