PLEASE don't take this the wrong way but I have been reading your thread and you exh is an a$$...Until you have verifiable proof that he is clean I wouldn't let him near you or your D. He seems like he is nowhere near a bottom that would make him want/need to get any help. He has too many enablers around him. I think you need to stay as far away from him as you can. Could he change absolutely, but something bigger than the DUI's is going to have to do it, and I'm not sure what that would be...
Wow...thank you! I have been beating my head against the wall for years on this. I KNOW what exh is, and everyone around him seems to think he is doing so well. I really thought the DUI would help and it did get him off the road, but he is just a victim of me in that. I did it out of spite.
I am petrified for baby that unless I can prove he is still unstable she will end up having time alone with him.
Thank you so much for your words.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
