Ok, time for some action. When the wife calls tonight I'm going to ask her again if she's ready to work on our marriage and if not let's get to filing. The heartache is unbearable. I'm not enjoying much of anything because I'm so caught up in wanting the wife to come home.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
It broke my heart to read in your last thread that your W couldn't be bothered to show up for your D's concert. How deplorable is that? Your D is wise beyond her years and your W is hurting her very badly.
Just because you didn't bring her flowers? Hold her hand? Put your arm around her? Barf!! I bet wives in Somalia are not whining about that sort of thing.
Ok, that was over the top, but I am embarrassed to be a woman sometimes. Seriously. Many of us would kill for a loyal, hard-working man like you. I have read so many lame-@ss excuses for bad behavior from posters right here on this forum and it really makes me sick.
"He's not home enough, he works too much....." and then, when the poor guy gets laid off from his job, "He's a lazy bum who hangs around the house too much." Pick, pick pick!!! Like a crazed chicken! What the hell is wrong with these immature females?
Jeez....I think they just really enjoy causing turmoil.
And how does you not bringing her a bunch of stupid flowers translate into the way she treats your D? Oh, that's right, IT DOESN'T!! Just lame-@ss excuses to behave badly.
Unfortunately, it's NOT just women. It's our society. ENTITLEMENT is killing this country. I deserve this I deserve that. Union mentality is one of the reasons why Asia is killing us in the auto market. I read a quote that said it best "EXPECTATIONS ARE PREMEDITATED RESENTMENT". It's ok to have healthy expectations, but in a R to expect our partners to do something without telling them is called "mind-reading" and I've yet to see that work.
My .02 for the day.
Have a great day everyone. Enjoy your present!!! PMA
And how does you not bringing her a bunch of stupid flowers translate into the way she treats your D?
You're right, it doesn't. I really wish that I didn't love my wife so much at this point.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
No, I really love her. I don't think I'd be holding on this long if I didn't really love her and want to be with her. I only wish she could see how much I love her.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
No, I really love her. I don't think I'd be holding on this long if I didn't really love her and want to be with her. I only wish she could see how much I love her.
How can you still LOVE someone after they have betrayed and lied to you like that? Are you holding on to the past? Is she the same person you married. Will she ever be the same again?
I'm curious how you answer these. Sometimes we keep on holding on for the wrong reasons. What do you deserve? Can she give you what you deserve?
I couldn't agree more. Whatever happened to self-reliance, and rugged individualism??
AMEN!!! Brotha! I'm NOT sure if Obama's message of bailing everyone out is the right answer. In fact I'm pretty sure it's just going to BREED more feelings of ENTITLEMENT.
