Tonight I asked her straight up:

- "Last night when I walked over there to give you a hug I saw an eharmony thing on the desktop. What's up?"
- "Oh that was -'s friend who's on there."
- "mmm"
- "So you're not on eharmony?"
- "No, my friend - is, but I think it's corny. I'm not in that big of a hurry to get out there."
- "mmm Ok. Just wondering...I'm going to bed so if you want a backrub come on upstairs."
- "Ok"
(I'm not expecting anything).


"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh