Hi Cat! I have no doubt that your D6 will be ok with a mama like you, and the support of your community. I read a lot here more than I post and cry a lot of tears for everyone that's hurting, especially the kids. But loss is part of living, and I have faith that the "DB kids" will be alright given that their parents are dealing with the loss in the best ways they can and working on being happy themselves.
My personal version of God is everything--the universe around us, in all of us. And love that we all show each other is part of that big love, it feeds off love and grows. And pain and loss is part of that love: it's the ending that begins a new beginning. D6's tears water the ground for her new life. Just thought of this, off the top of my head so sorry if it's stupid--maybe buying her a little plant she could water to symbolize that?
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
