Nothing physical - I think more EA and he'd probably deny that it's an EA. He'd say it was just him getting caught in the middle of our friends - trying to be the good supportive friend. I'm being very careful because he lied that he was talking to her and then he lied on Mother's Day night (when she drank 2 bottles of wine and was suicidal etc) about where he was going.
I couldn't get into our new counselor until next Wednesday. I feel better once our counseling sessions get started. Just sticking to the DBing techniques at this point.
I'm going to play it by ear about ML at this point. We'll see if he initiates anything again. I know his pattern is to freak out after we've ML so I'll just brace myself for it and continue on. However, if the pattern continues for too long then I'll need to refrain I think just to keep my sanity.
My son graduated tonight and I didn't let him or my difficult mother ruin it for me! Tomorrow is a new day!
