The dollar menu at McDonalds rocks dude... I have been below 20 many times recently.
I did not say you were getting off on it you dumbasss. What I said is that you know the answers to the questions you are asking.
I stopped calling it dark myself, I just call it being myself. I don't really have anything to say to Carrie, much like you with your ex.
I play softball on 3 teams right now, Tuesday nights, Wednesday nights, and Sundays. I also coach U14 boys soccer on Mondays and Sundays. I also am going to school online at night which averages about 2.5 hours a night of studying.
Flip flops my friend is merely code word. It could be binkies. It could be underwear. It could be shampoo. Later in life, it could be tampons. It's not about the item, it's about the co-parenting that she in her freakishly insane mind is trying to do.
Carrie called me out of the blue the other day to talk about my sons reaction to the dog dying. She talked to me for 30 minutes (our longest convo in about 8 months). She talked to me all about the dog. She talked about my school. She talked about stuff that is absolutely bizarre to talk about for someone who isn't providing her fair share for our daughter. She just talked.
I called Ty immediately after the talk and said the same things that you posted. Direct quote from me to Ty " what the hell was that all about, I mean is it just me or is that fricken nuts?" (fricken is not a direct quote I used a different word all together.)
It's like a bird flying into a window in front of you. You saw it happen, but you still say what the hell was that? Because we don't expect it, we don't understand how it happens, and we don't quite grasp the reality of what has occurred.
So now if you want to listen to me instead of being little mister defensive poopy pants guy, you will see that what I am saying is that you want validation for the insanity that just flew into a window in front of you. I get it. After you get that validation, then it's ok to say, "yeah, thats what I thought."
I think your doing fine dude. The finances will come together, just keep plugging away. Watch the show that is your wifes behavior from the sidelines dude. Your gonna see a lot of crazy shitt for a while. My best guess in your situation is that she will pull the old pop in on you bullshitt that many of them do within the next 2-3 weeks.
Can't wait to read your crazy batchitt post when that one happens.