Well things did not go as planned. Sunday it was 95 here and Wife does not do well in the heat. We did see our son off to camp after standing in the sun for about an hour. A little progress I guess was that at one point wife did snap at me. I said I was excited for out son. She then kind of apologized.. Sort of.. (Which is a whole lot more than she would have done in the past.) Anyway she informed me also that MIL had a "woman" test and they saw something and she had to take MIL in to make sure it was not cancer. So that was playing heavy. So we did not go out to dinner however wife did make a fancy dinner which also surprised me because with son not here she would usually just say :we are on our own for dinner". After dinner when she was washing dishes I told her the dinner was great and went to give her a kiss. This time she turned her head so I would have had to kiss her cheek. So Instead I went in to kiss her and then backed away and said Chic...(sp?).. This morning wife called me at work and said she did not sleep well worrying about our son.(this is the first time he has been away by himself for this long). Anyway I suggested that since they can have day visitors that maybe we could go there on Wednesday. It's only a 2 hour drive from here. Day what I am trying to do is "make nice" everything this week. There is no distraction, just wife and I. Things are pretty good right now but the are not what I want. YES OT I am going to let wife know before the end of the week. Depending how Wednesday goes if we feel up to it I will see if she wants to go to dinner then. BTW MIL test came out ok nothing to worry about..
Later Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
