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I have agreed with much of what OT and DQ have said, but the aggressive acts......I'm not sure. I remember a point and time that maybe that would have worked, but most of the time when I had not sexual desire and my H would have pulled that.......I probably would have punched his lights out and left! It would have been the wrong move to make with this gal. I think a lot of women like their H's to show male sexuality or strenth, and take the lead (as I would put it) but I don't know that I would go as far as OT suggested..... That may have been his sexual sence of humor talking....but I'm not sure.



I think she would see it as nothing but PRESSURE. And she hates PRESSURE.