well I come here to whinge/vent because there is NO WAY I can with him!! Of course they didnt go in one ear, quite the opposite, its all a huge help! I am looking forward to speaking to Jody tommorow too.

Its just an observation, he's not back yet.. else he would of course get me dinner. I'm not expecting it at all, not for months even. I am fully aware that I have to continue keeping body and soul together, for a long while! I had an EA/PAish and I know how I felt after that ended, the guilt made me need space for 6 months.

When I say quiz, I mean, just might make a gentle honest remark, or ask him to explain further he says anthing like last Friday (instead of just marching him up the stairs!) but I would make it very minor/brief!