Recap - M 2 1/2 years - separated for past 9 months. H has 3 1/2 months sobriety. Hx of arguing a lot and H threatening to leave me. His issue was wanting to drink, and my issue was to stop the drinking, stop the arguing, stop the quitting and to take some responsibility.
H wants to move back in since Mar, but all the other behaviors continued. I want some time with him without all these behaviors present before he moves back in - he says he is working on it and wants them changed just as much.
