He gets his self-worth from his work. So, he has always figured that YOU would connect his worth to his work! He thought the more successful he was at work, the more you would love him! But, it doesn't work that way, does it?
I think part of him realizes this, now. But, I don't know if that part is enough for him to change it. Saying that he is trying to figure out a way to quit the night job is hopeful, though. Now to see if he follows through.
