Ok, lets review.... when was your divorce finalized???
There is always a reaction to this day in one form or another. Generally guilt driven. I mean really Trapt, is this that hard to figure out or are you just reaching out here to get validation for what you already know in your heart?
Let me see if I can get in your head a little. She calls, leaves a message, emails, whatever. You say to yourself, "hmmm maybe she is realizing she made a mistake" or " hmmm, maybe she feels guilty and is trying to be my friend." So you kind of have your answer. Instead of running with that you come here and post things like.... " I just don't get it" " I don't understand" " what is she doing"
So, is it so bad? Is it really bugging you or do you secretly get off on the fact that she is initiating so much contact? My guess would be the latter..... I told you this is far from over...... Keep staying dark.... keep living your life..... See what happens down the road.......