She's feeling the thread that binds you slipping away. In her mind, you need to be right where she left you and at her beck and call 24/7. She's in a type of panic that requires trying to get in touch w/you. Many of them do this and once you touch base, it's back to the way things where. If I where in your shoes, I would continue doing exactly what you are doing. She needs to understand that there are consequences to her actions.
I'm sure others do feel her wrath. She's got to take it out on someone.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
