my xh said that he was taking a break from me and he will talk to me when he is ready. my son had asked him if he wanted to speak with me and that is what he said. NO
Why don't you know what he means by this??? Do you need the "watch my lips--N - O spells NO" conversation. As a mere observer this seems pretty clear to me, like which bit of NO are you not undersatnding.
It is really good that you haven't called or tried to make contact. Every day you resist is a day closer to your detaching and making a life for you.
I know what NO means. What I meant is.....I dont know what he means by, he will talk to me when he is ready. Does he think he can just call me whenever HE gets over what ever angier he has toward me? Do they really think it is ok to just one day decide, ok, I am not angry anymore, now I will speak to you? Like it is a privilage or something. He came to pick my son up today to go work out with him and he pulled ALL the way to the door...lol he does this when gf is not with him.lol I am off to work. It is such a beautiful day here.
T2SP, I havent packed up no pictures of him yet. I just have one that is sitting out, not really in view. It doesnt bother me, because he looks totally different now. It reminds me of the husband I once had, not the same man now.
