I'm seeing some movement from H, but it is in a direction opposite of what you were hoping. However, it is movement.
The mere fact he's verbalized his desire to quit the night job - the one that burden's your R the most - is HUGE! Don't let that escape you.
Also, remember he is a man who has allowed himself to be defined BY his work and he'll continue to do that for a while. If he continues his IC, he'll figure out in time that his work doesn't define him, but the fact he places such a tremendous value on it leads to some deeper insecurity. He'll need to flush this out, so it may have to be a priority for him, even if it isn't what you are hoping for.
Finally, concerning the passion, I think you'll need to be bold and make the move, my dear. Hold his hand, look super hot all the time and be as "happy" as possible whenever he's around. Flirt w/him again, like you used to long ago.
The key will need to be your attitude as even the most beautiful creature in the world is grossly unattractive if she's in a constantly bad mood. Attitude and confidence are very, very SEXY!
Points to ponder a bit from this bloke in the desert.
